I miss my friend and Godson! :-(

I am sad today I miss my friend and godson. For those of you that don't know she is a meth addict and she isn't in my life and today is her bday! :-(

 
By JessicaC on Tue, 01-24-12, 08:42

hi sweetie... I knew you'd be having a bad day today. is there any way to contact her? just write her a quick email or message saying you love her and miss her and wish her well?? it doesn't have to mean you are inviting her back into your life if she's not well... but it might help both of you if you were able to do that.

I was about to do something awesome again, but I told myself, "Enough is enough! That's plenty of awesome for one day."

"They say that marriage is about making two lives into one... nobody told me that meant we both would end up becoming HIM"

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By unknown8 on Tue, 01-24-12, 08:46

I am sorry that you are sad today. I can understand why you are sad. You are allowed to be sad. Can you celebrate her birthday in any way? Maybe you could light a candle, have a slice of cake. Do you have photos of her and you? Maybe you could make a collage of things that remind you of her? I am not really sure how to help, but thought I would throw a few things out there. You can tell me to go away if I am talking rubbish (garbage!). Love you Princess. Keep your chin up

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By Suzee on Tue, 01-24-12, 09:10

OH Princess, I remember you telling me about her and your Godson!! I think Jessica and Lace have given you wonderful suggestions!!! I just wanted you to know that I saw your post and I send my love and hugs!!!

Big prayers for you friend and hope, always that she will find her way back very soon!!!

Big hugs, Suzee

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By Oslek-1844 on Tue, 01-24-12, 09:16

Morning “Magic Princess Warrior” –

I know today is a difficult day for you because you miss your high school friend and godson.

Please know – sometimes we all make the wrong decisions and bad choices in our lives. But in doing so – we also learn from those decisions and choices – and in the learning process we become better people.

Maybe in a strange way - your friend is actually learning to become a better person. And when the learning process is over for her – it is nice to know that you will still be there for her and your Godson when she calls on you in the future.

I spent two decades being an alcoholic – and I made a bad choice in continuing to do so. I also had many relapses and failed attempts at stopping my negative behavior. It took me some time but those days are now over and have been for ten years – and though I was not a bad person before I made that bad choice – I feel I am a better person now because I learned from my experiences. I realize how important things are now – things which I use to take for granted before.

Try to think of your high school friend in that way. She is not gone – she is just furthering her education.

At least that is how I see it.

I told you I would do my best to keep watch over you. Please keep “Angel” and “Kung Fu Panda” close today – alright?

Thinking of you today – “Papa Mike”

"Light Cannot Exist Without Darkness"

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By JessicaC on Tue, 01-24-12, 09:16

are you still in contact with her parents? I know a few months ago you werent sure where she was or how she was, maybe you could contact her parents and talk to them? they probably know how she is or where she is.... maybe she's even doing okay.

I was about to do something awesome again, but I told myself, "Enough is enough! That's plenty of awesome for one day."

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By unknown8 on Tue, 01-24-12, 09:48

Princess... I enjoyed talking with you just a moment ago. Please remember what we said in our chat. OK? I will check in with you in a bit. Love you lots x

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By Princess on Tue, 01-24-12, 10:06

I just wanted to say thank you to Jessica, Lace, Suzee and Mike! I appreciate all your support and suggestions! I am doing ok/better right now! but I am pretty sure I am going to have a tough night! I am going to be going shopping for some new boots but I just wanted to say thanks and let everyone know I am doing ok!

Thanks again!

I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren't rich, or are young or old! They're still princesses. All of us. Didn't anyone tell you that? Didn't anyone? I am telling you that!

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By unknown8 on Tue, 01-24-12, 10:12

Keep talking, remember it's good to talk!! & remember what we talked about... and your promise!!

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By JessicaC on Tue, 01-24-12, 11:24

did you ever get your hair done like you planned? post a pic on FB please!!

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By stanisz on Tue, 01-24-12, 11:44

oh princess to day is the day and i am so sorry this is a day of grieving and prayer instead of happiness and rejoicing for you. please know that being loved and prayed for even from a distance make a difference between life and death and maybe the saving grace of your friend and certainly your little Godson. may peace be in their heart and the victory of the Lord overcome the addiction of meth and bring them home to your heart soonest. all my love and peace maria stanisz

...love and prayers and may the Lord Bless us All!

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